Wednesday, October 27, 2010

What is it that makes some men deny their children?

So I’m sitting in my room watching Maury, which admittedly, I haven’t done in a long time. As is typical of Maury, today’s theme reads My Wife’s a Sex Addict, Am I her Baby’s Father? One of the pairs profiled had a brief relationship that in the end resulted in a baby. However, the mother of that child brought the young man on Maury because shortly after she became pregnant, he ended their relationship and immediately denied paternity of the child. After doing the show, a DNA test proved that he was in fact the child, but the now proven father still had difficulty accepting this now proven reality. Later on in that very same show, Maury profiled a couple with a slightly different story. In this case the young lady admitted her infidelity, and after a DNA test, the young man asked Maury not to read the results because they were irrelevant to how he felt. So I pose the question, what is it that makes some men deny children they know are theirs, and other men take complete and total responsibility? 

As I read this over, I wonder why this is even a question. A parent is a parent. So my advice to you all is this. If you’re going to be one of those guys that run away from the responsibility of YOUR child, then run away from the mother before you impregnate her. 

Because denying your child, a child that you created, and is completely innocent in the situation is definitely some Sssh….you just don’t do.

Love and blessings, don’t forget to follow me….and take care of the kids please.

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