SYJDD…What's your last name?
So I’m pretty sure I’m gonna ruffle the feathers of a couple of you readers…but I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t, besides, no need for anyone to get angry or what not if it doesn’t apply to you hint, hint. Anyway, giving all honor to God who’s the head of my life, Pastor, Deacons, and all other respected clergy, I have to say that it would be a sin if I didn’t give credit for the inspiration
of this blog to one Lovetta Fulgham whose thoughtful FaceBook
status inspired me to write this month’s blog, so big shot out to Lovetta, which leads me to the headline of this week’s blog: Please Stop claiming the last names of men who haven’t given them to you…Seriously, that’s some Ssshhh you just don’t do.
A wise woman once said you can’t expect a man to buy the cow when he’s already drinking the milk for free, or something like that lol. Anyway, the fact of the matter is, if a man wants you to have his last name
, he’ll give it to you. Don’t take it upon yourself to name yourself Mrs. (insert his last name here). Honestly, behavior like this scares the hell out of men. He drop's you off from a date, gets on face book
and notice that your last name now matches his…what the hell. He's probably sitting at home
screaming at the computer screen
planning his escape from your fatal attraction
behaving ass. (Note, I didn’t say you had a fatal attraction… I'm simply suggestion that your behavior mimics that of the behavior displayed in fatal attraction, lol).
But, the most obvious reason not to do this, is that you can’t expect a man to officially give you his last name if you walking around town and all over face book UNOFFICIALLY claiming it, what sense would that make?
So the moral of the story is, stop claiming these men folk last names. If he wants you to have it, he’ll give it to you, until then, keep the one your mama put on your birth certificate
, because that’s some SYJDD.
Deuces
…. Stephanie
So I’m pretty sure I’m gonna ruffle the feathers of a couple of you readers…but I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t, besides, no need for anyone to get angry or what not if it doesn’t apply to you hint, hint. Anyway, giving all honor to God who’s the head of my life, Pastor, Deacons, and all other respected clergy, I have to say that it would be a sin if I didn’t give credit for the inspiration
of this blog to one Lovetta Fulgham whose thoughtful FaceBook status inspired me to write this month’s blog, so big shot out to Lovetta, which leads me to the headline of this week’s blog: Please Stop claiming the last names of men who haven’t given them to you…Seriously, that’s some Ssshhh you just don’t do.A wise woman once said you can’t expect a man to buy the cow when he’s already drinking the milk for free, or something like that lol. Anyway, the fact of the matter is, if a man wants you to have his last name
, he’ll give it to you. Don’t take it upon yourself to name yourself Mrs. (insert his last name here). Honestly, behavior like this scares the hell out of men. He drop's you off from a date, gets on face book and notice that your last name now matches his…what the hell. He's probably sitting at home screaming at the computer screen planning his escape from your fatal attraction behaving ass. (Note, I didn’t say you had a fatal attraction… I'm simply suggestion that your behavior mimics that of the behavior displayed in fatal attraction, lol).But, the most obvious reason not to do this, is that you can’t expect a man to officially give you his last name if you walking around town and all over face book UNOFFICIALLY claiming it, what sense would that make?
So the moral of the story is, stop claiming these men folk last names. If he wants you to have it, he’ll give it to you, until then, keep the one your mama put on your birth certificate
, because that’s some SYJDD.Deuces
…. Stephanie
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